By Alan W. Cohen
It seems like it happens every year. Some loco female teacher go gaga over a young boy, and is found out only when a child results. It happened again this week, when it was reported:
“Marissa A. Mowry, 25, was arrested by the Hillsborough County Sheriffs Office and taken to the county’s jail, Fox 13 reported.
Mowry reportedly started a sexual relationship with an 11-year-old boy in 2014 when she was 22, police said, adding that the relationship went on until the boy was 14.
In October 2014, Mowry gave birth to a child who is now 3, deputies said.
Mowry is facing sexual battery and sexual assault charges. The Hillsborough County Sheriffs Office Child Protective Division is also investigating the incident, WFLA added.”
Here’s the bad news for that boy. In just four years, he will be a legal adult, and that same rapist will likely go after him for child support and win. Yes, being the victim of a rape is no defense to child support. That was something that was decided in the family courts more than 25 years ago when a Wisconsin Court of Appeals found that a being raped as a minor was no defense to paternity, that the resulting child was the innocent one, and all children deserve to be supported. Period. All 50 states have adopted this principle, as has our federal government. All that matters is that the sperm hits the egg.
A more immoral statement has never been spoken. And that is what our nation has turned into, a land where right is wrong and wrong is right, where the Natural Law that Aristotle spoke of, is turned completely on its head. The Roman senator Cicero distinguished between the laws of nature and the law of man. The law of nature was moral and incorruptible, while the law of man changes with the wind, the will of the mob against the rights of the individual.
What we have in America, and have had for more than 150 years, is man made law trumping natural law. As I explain in my new book, Private Vows: The Case for Ending State Regulation of Marriage and Divorce, the Founders of our great nation believed in the Natural Law, that, as stated in the Declaration of Independence, “we were endowed by Our Creator with certain unalienable rights” including the Right to Parent and the Right to Marry, rights that are forever entwined in Religious Liberty. When our Supreme Court, beginning in 1833, turned away from individual liberty in favor of majority rule, it turned against Natural Law. As Locke once said, Natural Law is right reason, that is purely ethical. Our Founders agreed, finding that government had no authority under the Constitution to compel anyone to do anything when it came to how to raise their children.
In 1888, the Supreme Court rejected the Founders and adopted a bastardized version of English marriage law that was based on the canons of the Anglican Church, forcing all Americans to adhere to what was, in England, a voluntary choice. The government was thus free to compel individuals to adhere to its rules, one being that a husband must support his children or be subject to state determined punishment. In 1973, the Supreme Court ruled that children had no right to financial support from their fathers, but if a state required fathers to support their children, it could not discriminate based on marital status. The federal government pounced, and issued laws requiring all fathers to support their children until age 18, creating an immense bureaucracy that puts the IRS to shame, to enforce that edict.
So, for this now 14-year-old boy, who will be forever traumatized, the rape is not over. It will continue for the next 15 years thanks to the federal government and the Supreme Court.
Alan W. Cohen is retired after more than 25 years as an attorney practicing Family Law. He is also the author of America Solved: A New Family for the 21st Century, a scathing review of what he calls The Child Support System.
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